The LoveLife Couples Intimacy Retreat in the Blue Mountains
A weekend to deepen your love, rekindle desire and come home to each other.
Escape the daily grind and retreat into your couple bubble.
Led by renowned psychosexual therapist Jacqueline Hellyer, this luxurious 3-day retreat in the Blue Mountains is a guided journey into conscious relating and sacred sexuality, where science meets soul and love meets erotic aliveness.
Is This You?
- You love each other… but life’s gotten in the way.
- You’re doing okay… but something’s missing.
- You want depth, not just tools. Meaning, not just maintenance.
Maybe you're:
- Busy professionals stuck in a routine
- Empty-nesters wanting to rediscover each other
- Spiritual seekers craving embodied intimacy
- In a good relationship, ready to make it extraordinary
This retreat is for couples who want to live in the Simmer Zone - where connection is warm, steady, and sensually alive.
What You’ll Experience
This isn’t group therapy. It’s not about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about creating a relationship where desire flows naturally - because you’re attuned, connected, and present.
Each session blends:
- Science-based insights into love and intimacy
- Ancient wisdom from Tantra and Taoist traditions
- Somatic and psychobiological practices
- Joy, insight and playful connection
Next Retreat
20-22 June
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Numbers limited!
"Real intimacy doesn’t start in the bedroom - it starts in the kitchen, the hallway, the car. This retreat teaches you how to make your whole relationship an invitation to desire."
What You’ll Learn During this Couples Retreat
Cultivating an Approach to Sex that is Endlessly Satisfiyng and Creative!
Ultimately, the retreat aims to help you cultivate a creative and satisfying approach to sex. By keeping your connection strong, communicating openly, and exploring together, you'll ensure that your love life thrives. This retreat is just the beginning or a continuation of a beautiful journey of life and love together.
Enhancing Erotic Arousal Through Pleasure.
Explore the "yin and yang" of sex, including giving and receiving, leading and following, and balancing intensity with subtlety. You'll learn about the Seven Elements of Sex, and how tapping into these elements helps you integrate individual and partnered sexuality, enriching your erotic exploration.
Exploring the Ecstasy of 'Valleys' and the Intensity of 'Peaks' in Sex.
While intense, vigorous sex (the "peaks") has its appeal, the real ecstasy lies in the "valleys" of sex. The retreat allows you to explore how to relax and become present in your body, leading to extraordinarily beautiful sexual experiences. You'll discover various ways to be orgasmic and how to extend and deepen erotic and sexual connection, including learning how to enjoy a Tantric quickie.
Merging Love and Sex Energy.
One of the retreat's powerful teachings is merging love and sex energies, which is particularly beneficial for long-term relationships as it goes beyond mere lust. By understanding this concept, you'll continuously share this delicious energy throughout the day, keeping your Couple Bubble strong and maintaining a "simmering" state that makes transitioning into lovemaking easier.
Developing an Erotic Language Together.
One key element of the retreat is learning to talk about sex openly and supportively. You'll develop a shared erotic language, fostering open, creative, and inspiring conversations about sex that are neither sleazy nor uncomfortable. This immersive experience helps make sex a mutual hobby, enhancing your connection.
Strengthening Your 'Couple Bubble'.
Learn to maintain a strong "Couple Bubble," recognizing that a relationship involves three entities: each partner as an individual and the couple as a unit. A robust Couple Bubble extends connection into individuality, making life more connected and resilient. This means understanding your partner and yourself deeply, enabling communication that works for both of you. Essentially, you become experts on each other.
Slowing Down so that you’re in the Chill Zone.
Good sex is not possible if you’re stressed; it’s about 'syncing in to sink in’ as you can’t have good sex if you’re not connected; and it’s about being mindful, as you can’t have good sex if you’re not present to the experience. I explain the theory and present the practices in a way that is appropriate for contemporary couples. As so many participants say, it’s not ‘woo hoo’ or ‘fluffy’, it makes good practical sense that you can incorporate into ‘real’ life.
Understanding Tantric Wisdom and Its Modern Relevance.
Learn how Tantric wisdom relates to sexuality, its physiological basis, and why it’s so important for modern lovers. I love the way science is reaffirming ancient wisdom in so many ways, particularly when it comes to sex. The Tantric approach is essentially a dyadic movement-based embodied mindfulness approach to love-making - connected, erotic, intimate.
Please note that this Retreat is intended for couples who are already in a relatively good place and wish to enhance their relationship further (i.e., not on the brink of separation or experiencing significant conflict). If your relationship is deeply troubled or in crisis, please arrange private sessions with me first, either in person or online.
Retreat Details
When:
14-16 February 2025
20-22 June 2025
17-19 October 2025
The retreat starts at 11am on Friday and finishes at 3.30pm on Sunday.
Fee:
$2550 per couple (includes all workshops, gourmet meals except breakfast, and special gifts)
Capacity:
Maximum 10 couples per retreat. All committed couples welcome, including same-sex partners
Accommodation:
Your accommodation is additional and booked and paid directly with Parklands. Rates vary depending on the season and time of booking. And you get a discount as a retreat participant! I'll give you the code once you've booked in. Please follow this link to browse availability and prices.
Book into the Love Life Weekend Couples Retreat
When you book, you'll be asked to pay a 50% deposit. I’ll then invoice you for the remaining balance, which is due four weeks before the retreat. Feel free to contact me if you’d like to discuss any details before booking or if you’d like to arrange a payment plan.
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On a personal note:
I’ve guided thousands of couples over 20+ years, including 15 years running couples retreats, and this is the distillation of everything I know about what makes love and intimacy thrive over the long term.
This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a guided immersion into real, lasting connection, one that honours both your sensuality and your soul.
Join me, and let’s make your relationship not just work… but become erotically alive!
Hear from the participants themselves!
"What a wonderful experience it was for us, we learned so much! The retreat was a great mix of conceptual / theory sessions and practical ones on a range of topics that all hit the spot for us as a couple. The sessions helped us really look at our relationship holistically. We had the opportunity to put into practice right away what we learned in a relaxed and beautiful setting, as well as having really practical ideas that we have taken home with us and are building into our daily life. There was a great sense of fun and discovery and I think there were many light bulb moments for everyone over the three days.
The weekend moved at a great pace too – it didn’t seem like ‘work’ at all, it really felt like a relaxing and luxurious weekend away for us as a couple, as much as an opportunity to learn, to rediscover, to reconnect. The size of the retreat seemed just right, and we could choose to socialise as much or as little with the other participants in a very comfortable and natural way.
I have already recommended the retreat to friends and would say if you are considering doing it – take the leap and jump in, you won’t regret it!"
JS&BS
"We traveled to Australia from the United States with the main purpose to attend Jacqueline's Blue Mountains retreat for
our anniversary. Although we arrived with some uncertainty of what to expect, we left more than satisfied with the entire phenomenal
experience, refreshed in our relationship, and inspired to continue to learn from Jacqueline!
Our nerves were promptly calmed with the way Jacqueline presents, the staff were welcoming, the facilities were gorgeous, the food
was amazing, and the atmosphere was perfect to do some self and shared growth. It was more than worth traveling across the world
to meet Jacqueline and participate in her retreat! Jacqueline is positively reinforcing relationships with vital tools to not only change their relationship/s and lives, but also everyone around them! Thank you for sharing some TLC from the bottom of our hearts Jacqueline, we will see you at one of your Bali retreats in the future!"
BD&TD
"Jacqueline - We wanted to give you feedback on what was an amazing weekend. We both feel it was THE BEST investment we have ever made as a couple. We had so much fun on the weekend, but that is just a fraction of the value we got from attending. We learned tools that will serve us for the rest of our lives, tools that will not only allow us to derive so much pleasure out of life but also bring us closer together as a couple.
We were hoping it would allow us to derive more enjoyment out of our sex lives. These expectations have already been exceeded, and with so much more enjoyment and fun yet to explore we know it will only get better. We were also hoping this would bring us closer together as a couple, and again these expectations were exceeded. What we did not expect was to be given tools that would bring us closer together as a couple in all aspects of our lives. A truly incredible surprise!
The mix of spiritual and science suited us perfectly. The comparison of chakras to neural plexi was an inspired interpretation that puts things in ways that allows people from any kind of background to understand the concepts.
You have an amazing gift at putting people at ease, explaining things so easily and providing a safe environment to allow us to share. It's very inspiring.
All the best,"
JS&LS
Couples Retreat FAQs
If you're not sure, feel free to contact me and I'll give you a call to discuss your situation. As long as you're in a reasonably good space you should be fine. If you have big issues or are volatile then I recommend you see me or one of my colleagues at The LoveLife Clinic for private sessions first. Often couples do have a session or more with me before attending the retreat, and some have private sessions afterwards to consolidate and focus on individual issues.
If at any time you want some time out or don't want to participate, you are very welcome to have a break or sit out. That's totally up to you.
I will be available to everyone on the retreat to make sure you feel comfortable and supported. As a therapist I will be available to talk to participants during the breaks.
There are no group activities during the workshops, it's rather like ten individual retreats going on at the same time, with each couple focused on themselves.
But socially, that depends on you! Some couples are quite gregarious and friendly and others keep to themselves. Generally anyone who comes on this retreat is a pretty cool couple, dedicated to their love and growth, so generally it's a very open and loving group of people and often new friendships are made.
No, the whole venue is reserved for our retreat.
No, everything is provided. You might want to bring a small speaker to play music in your suite. As to clothes, wear comfortable clothes during the workshops and something fancier for Saturday's dinner at Wintergarden.
Yes, all food requirements can be met. And it's all delicious!
Read your partner all the testimonials on this page and show your partner the photos of all the very 'normal' looking participants!
I'm happy to have a chat with anyone who needs to be reassured.
Absolutely! Love is love and everyone is welcome.
You pay a 50% deposit on booking. This is done through Stripe's secure payment gateway. The remainder needs to be paid up to a month in advance by bank transfer (preferably), credit card or through Stripe.
If you need a different payment plan, such as paying in smaller installments, please contact me to make an arrangement that suits.
You can transfer to a later retreat up to six weeks in advance of the one you're booked in for. You can also cancel up to six weeks in advance, with a 10% admin fee. Less than six weeks in advance you can only cancel or transfer if another couple is able to take your space.
Please read the Terms and Conditions for more information.
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